In observing the world around me, I’m convinced that I, for the majority of my life looked at people through my optimistic glasses. While that’s not all bad, it does set me up for heart pains when people don’t meet what my heartmind says they should do.
Is it more to relationships than failed expectations?
When I look at relationships happening aeround me plus the ones in my life, everything, the hurt emotions, deflated egos, distance, etc all relate back to unmet or failed expectations.
But how do you go about controlling your expectations, or informing other people of them without seeming like a snob? No one wants to hear of where your bar is alll the time! Unless you have people who are on the same page….
More thoughts for another day.